VICTIM BLAMING!! POV

Why it is always the victim? I felt this. 

                      *(Al generated image)

It wasn't always about some gloomy or dark days. It's something more. What people never try to understand. For them, it's not their problem. So they never want to think of the victim and they know they are perfect for sure. 

If something happens , people sneak in home just to paint the walls brighter, as they think, brighter the wall , blurry will become the eyes. You know in night roads, what brighter lights can cause. 

People have lot to say, comment , react, respond even before their ears could hear the real truth. I know that it's the responsibility of each person to safeguard us. In Neeya Naana show I heard these lines from a girl, 'If I keep on thinking to safeguard, protect myself from any danger, when can I live my life?' . The statement carried things beyond those clear words. Always thinking about the security will make us lead the life , not live the life. There is huge difference in both. 

There is no place in the world called 'safe' first of all. Still there are some houses that can never be claimed 'home'. I mean it. When it comes to a problem, people suddenly appear to talk about culture, family honour, respect and so on. Bro, what about your daughter and son. Here people will definitely forget your family and your family honour within few days, but you can't forget your son or daughter and what they have gone through.

Never let your ears to feed on coated words that corrupts. 

Why I insist not to hear coated words? Because witnessing the emotions is different from living with it. 

VICTIM - Actually that's not their fault. A victim, though their thoughts fight to stop, their hands fail, that make them not to react in those situations. Body turns cold. They shiver. They get stressed. They only listen to the predators words. They know it's wrong. But they can not do anything. It's not acceptance. It's anesthetic. Even own body fails to follow. It's not a ridicule, it's reality. The reality in which the brains stores, information of each sec they go through. That's storage deletion can never be done in some clicks. It rewinds them, reminds them and the victim relives them. Not just once, but for life. 

People never think of these, they say if he/she was careful, stopped ,shouted, ran.... this wouldn't have happened. Complaining even for the dress they wore. Dear, first be in the situation and talk. If dress be the matter for you , let me show you one thing 

After seeing this tell me, do you really feel dress is the reason ???!!!

I admit here. Victim might forget the incident but not how they got treated at their worst time. How they got noticed, valued, loved, cared, heard, without any kind of judgements and criticisms.

If you are a victim, hold on sorry for making you remember incidents that you badly want to forget. It's not your fault. You are the strongest person I know. You are gold. I know your value and many do. Take care of your health, physically and mentally. You are not alone. I am with you. We are with you. 

Dear people, Just because you heard an incident, don't pass on your own opinion without knowing the truth. If you really care for the victim, better please never let your words spill out without thinking. Let's talk with consciousness. 

See you then.

~ P_P Thoughts of Heart